For some time now, rare and/or abbreviated names for sexual practices are becoming more and more common.
BDSM are the acronym for a sexual practice. Perhaps if we only name the acronyms to abbreviate it, it will not sound like what is going to be discussed in this article. But if we start to mention sexual practices like the ones they do in movies like the well-known 50 Shades of Gray, then surely, you will start to get an idea of what it is about.
In short, these sexual practices could be summed up as sensual and a mixture of eroticism, submission, also domination, and then a long etcetera that ends only in the imagination and as far as you want to go.
Instructions
- This sexual practice or rather, these sexual mixtures, are not new at all. Another thing is that today’s movies or series make them more popular or make them reach a much larger audience. But they are practices, classics, of a lifetime (at least, for those who practice them).
- These sexual practices are a mixture of various sexual practices such as submission, domination, masochism and bondage.
- To get a quick and clear idea, let’s think about all these sexual practices, but it can be from a very “light” and basic level, as well as at slightly more extreme levels. In the end, in all these practices, the top or the culmination of everything, is put by the two parties. The couple or the people who practice it. Therefore, saying what to do or how is very relative.
- It may be that both parties, within BDSM, prefer some practices more than others. For example, they give more free rein to bondage or masochism. To the ritual, to the practices…
- As we said before, to begin to specify the terms and make the terminology shorter, we will only say the initials of the sexual practices. We emphasize again that we will always mention the practices: Bondage, domination, submission and masochism. All this, summed up, will be Beds.
- This was put to a somewhat more fashionable public or even, they got to know it, through a series of books that were later seen in theaters, such as 50 shades of Gray. There, to a greater or lesser extent, these sexual practices are used (although for connoisseurs it will be very basic, simple, light, etc.).
- As for these practices, it also depends on what the integrating parties like more or less. It may not be sensual at all or it may be. It will not be worse, nor will it be better. Simply, they are tastes and the most important thing is to be comfortable while practicing. It is essential to let the imagination fly, flow, fully enjoy sex.
- For everything to go well and come to fruition, what many couples do is put on keywords. At some specific moment, when one of the parties does not want to continue, they say that word and at that moment the other person must stop doing what they are doing. Let us think that this is mainly due to slightly more extreme practices, such as masochism. In this type of sexual performance, different sex toys and others are used, such as the whip, the whip… therefore, when faced with pain, discomfort or simply not wanting to continue, that word is pronounced and it stops immediately.
- To practice beds, the couple assumes that they want to experiment. Experimenting with different sexual practices, experimenting with different things, letting your imagination fly, letting yourself be carried away by your darkest pleasures, desires that until that moment only crossed your mind but you hadn’t experienced.
- Of course, if you are very shy or shy, it will cost you or you will not be able to. Think that between the two of you will let yourself go completely, that you will be naked, that you will be completely free of prejudice and if you cut yourself off due to shyness or complexes, it will cost you a lot to carry it out. Therefore, leave the complexes aside, just think about what you want to do, what you like and the pleasure of both yours and the other person. Let yourself go, comment before starting your concerns, fears, insecurities… and with that said, to the mess. Trust is very important.
- You will also wonder what you can use or what is usually used in BDSM. Of course, to use, you can use and complement the practices with whatever you want and like. But like this, as a general rule and the most typical (speaking of the fact that you start with these practices and it is a basic level), they would be whips and whips. It will always be a complement that can give you a lot of play and you can use it both. Both for submission, as for domination and role changes. Handcuffs, leather in all its variants (masks and masks) are often used a lot and underwear with leather, garters, garters, etc. They are another point used.
- In question, bondage focuses on tying up the couple (both the woman and the man) and gagging them. Therefore, it is vitally important to be aware of the couple to know if they want to continue, if they want to stop, if they are not comfortable, etc.
- In bondage, the usual practices are to tie the person who plays the role of submissive or submissive. Therefore, his feet, hands, arms, legs… (to a greater or lesser degree), his eyes and mouth are tied. And that is why it is so important that between the couple or those who practice it, take into account how to stop immediately if at any time you do not want to continue with those games. Because in the end, talking will not be possible. Therefore, a specific movement, or a keyword, will be the reason to stop immediately. Without exceptions.
- Another particularity is to decide if you give sex harder or you are more of giving and receiving pleasure. In that case, we could also talk about tantric sex. It is a little different in this case, because tantric sex, although of course it is also to give pleasure and receive it, does not have so much to do with submission or domination.
- Tantric sex is a type of sex where you could say that you also meditate. That is to say, a sex where you last a long time before ejaculating is very important. A pleasurable sex to the extreme that is not so easy to practice because to do it really well, you have to have a lot of rapport with your partner. Therefore, although it can be mixed and practiced with BDSM, it would not be within these sexual practices. One could almost say, that they have nothing to do…
What do you need
- A key word to stop, without exception, in the face of any unforeseen event, pain or change in the sexual act.
- Ropes, cords, handcuffs, whips, whips, masks, gags, chains, etc.
- Leave shame, shyness, complexes, doubts and uncertainty aside. It is necessary to have confidence and let yourself go in order to fully enjoy yourself.
Tips
In this type of sexual relations (not as common as the classic sex can be, with romanticism, common postures, etc.) they became very fashionable a few years ago, with the successful literary trilogy of 50 shades of Grey. With the literary saga it began to sound, but it was not until the movie version came out, with the famous actors, that this BDSM thing began to become fashionable and become more current.
Let us remember, that in the end, although it sounds strange or may seem like a very complex or strange sexual practice (and from some points of view and more, if it has never been practiced, it may be) to put it into practice or start with it, you have to have certain bases so as not to get scared. For example, it can be complex in terms of binding and what is used for it. There are certain couples (just like the movie) who have real complexes for their sexual acts and their variants on the theme. From whips with more or less intensities, ropes, ties, many different types of gags, masks (which can be simple or made of leather), even masks, more or less simple gags, etc.
In the end, what must be taken into account is that for many people more than sexual practice, this BDSM, it is a fetishism. From a mental state, a physical state, putting into practice the darkest desires, libido, ecstasy… but not so much in the sexual act with penetration.
