Many men believe that penetration is the peak of the sexual act that we live with the couple, but that is not always the case. Most women are easy to turn on, but you have to know how to turn them on. It is not really difficult to get a woman aroused without penetrating her.
Although men and women like to see how a woman is penetrated and the simple fact of imagining penetrations excites us, in practice to be able to penetrate a woman and give her pleasure you have to have excited her first.
In addition to the fact that sometimes men like to excite their girls but not necessarily get to the coital act, because they like to see how they make them feel pleasure and desire without reaching the “cherry on the cake” or looking for other subtler forms of fun as it is, eroticize the couple without reaching intercourse.
To know how to arouse a woman without penetrating her, you have to take into account many factors and not see everything in a simple way. All humans, men and women, have areas of the body that, with the right stimulation and the right mood, can generate excitement when stimulated.
If you want to arouse a woman without penetrating her, you must know which part of her body to touch and when to do so. To know that, today we bring you an article of help and instruction that will help you in your mission to excite your partner easily.
What do you need to excite women without penetrating them?
- A girl
- Hands
- Mouth and tongue
Instructions to excite women without penetrating them
- Understand that not everything is genitals or breasts. It is a common mistake for men to want to go first to the most obvious part of the female body, the breasts, the buttocks or the genital area to stimulate a woman. Although these sensitive areas cause pleasure when stimulated, if that stimulation is done too soon it could be uncomfortable and even painful. Start carefully and in less obvious areas.
- The face, arms or legs. These areas are less obvious and when you caress any of these parts of the woman’s body, you help her to relax, to feel comfortable and by being comfortable and relaxed she will be able to arouse herself better.
- Vary the caresses. Another big mistake man make is to caress only one part of the body, believing that it will give pleasure, and they forget about others, making stimulation monotonous and possibly boring. Do not focus on a single area, caress several areas and increase the intensity as more areas are caressed. For example, run your hand from the calf to the thigh, or from the neck to the arm and back.
- It is convenient that your girl does not have many clothes, so you can caress her better. Combine these caresses with kisses on the neck, arms, or any other area of the body you want. The kisses in conjunction with the caresses will make your girl begin to release oxytocin and get excited. In the same way, tender whispers, sexy words, soft and controlled bites, and tender looks can go a long way in creating a romantic and exciting environment.
- Once your girl has warmed up, it’s time to increase the level of intensity and now, yes, touch the parts that we had reserved all this time. Start with gentle caresses sliding your hand from the waist, neck or arms to the breasts, rub them a little, gently at first and if your girl likes it, increase the intensity and squeeze them. Move them with your hands without being too rough, always being careful not to hurt her if it bothers her. It is ideal to touch her breasts while you kiss her with some passion.
- Caress her thighs more persistently and sliding your hands from her thighs to her buttocks. If it pleases her, ask her to lie on her stomach and caress her buttocks with both of your hands. The buttocks are erogenous zones and stimulating them produces a lot of pleasure. When your girl is wet and at the height of excitement, you can touch her genital area.
- You can know if your girl is excited and wet if she is lubricating, to know this just put your fingers between her legs and touch her panties, if they are wet it is that your girl is lubricating and you can touch her genital area without bothering her, because there will be no vaginal dryness
- At this point, it only remains to choose what kind of non-coital sexual practice they want to perform. You can masturbate her with your hands or by rubbing her against your body, you can give her oral sex, or just keep caressing, kissing or licking her whole body.
Tips to arouse women without penetrating them
- If your girl does not lubricate much, don’t worry, this does not mean that she is not excited, but that she does not produce much lubricant. Lack of lubrication can make penetrative intercourse and masturbation uncomfortable or painful. To avoid this, you can use a water-based or saliva-based lubricant to moisten it.
