Surely on more than one occasion it has happened to you to be with a girl and doubt whether or not to kiss her. This circumstance can make you lose the opportunity to do it, even forever, or save you from her trying to avoid you. For this reason, we are going to explain how to know when to kiss a girl, so that you can know if she is ready for it.
The kiss is a step for there to be physical contact between two people, implicitly leading, when it occurs naturally, for both people to admit the existence of attraction between them.
Knowing if the other person is receptive to a kiss is essential to not make mistakes when launching, for which you have to look at different aspects such as the conversation itself and body language. Below we will explain everything you need to know about it.
Interpret the conversation
It’s important that you pay close attention to how she interacts with you while you’re talking to her in the first place. You don’t have the certain way of whether you want to kiss her; but what you can do is pay attention to the way he interacts with you and that can give you some clues about it, such as the following:
- If she looks you directly in the eye and maintains eye contact, it is a sign that, at the very least, she is interested in the conversation you are having.
- If he laughs and smiles sincerely and makes you see that he is enjoying himself while he is talking to you, that is another clue; although it does not mean that you can jump directly to give him a kiss.
- When he looks at your lips this can be a sign that he wants you to give him a kiss. However, to interpret it in this way it is convenient to take into account the context.
In addition, you should take into account the level of enthusiasm that he brings to your meeting. You can notice this by seeing if she is bored or looking forward to the end of the date; or if, on the contrary, it is she who suggests another place to go, for example, which is an indication that at least she is having a good time.
You should also notice how the conversation ends. If she is constantly active and asking you questions about you, showing her interest in you, she may actually want you to kiss her. On the other hand, if she ignores your comments or she talks about herself most of the time, it is possible that she is not interested.
A very clear sign is if the conversation turns to intimate topics, which makes it possible to clearly see their interest in each other.
Body language interpretation
It is important to take into account the conversation itself, but it is just as important or even more so to pay attention to body language, which can lead you to know if she really wants to be kissed by you or not.
To begin with, you must learn to read his posture, that is, how he places his body when you are together:
- In the event that he draws his body towards you, such as his chest, shoulders, legs, leaning forward and keeping his arms open, these are positive signs.
- An open posture means that there is interest, although you should keep in mind that they may not always have the same feeling as you.
- If he reaches out to touch you or bends over frequently “invading” your space, this is usually a sign of interest.
You can also watch the way she reacts when you touch her. You can lightly touch his hand or arm and see his reaction:
- If she is reluctant and walks away or stiffens, it means she is not comfortable. At this time, it would not be advisable for her to kiss her.
- If you see that she blushes, smiles or laughs, it means that she is comfortable. In this case, it is quite possible that she will reciprocate if you kiss her.
- If she gets too close to you when you say goodbye or is very close to you, it usually means that she loves you back and it may be the perfect time to kiss her.
Ask her
If after the previous signals you are still not sure if she wants you to kiss her or not, you can ask her. Asking her permission can be seen as a gesture of consideration towards her. This way there will be no room for doubt.
However, it can make you lose the “magic” of the kiss; but at least you’ll know that you won’t make the mistake of jumping in without her really wanting to. In any case, following the indications that we have told you, it is very likely that you will succeed.
If you’re both comfortable and she’s especially close, she’ll likely reciprocate if you jump in and try to kiss her.
