Conquering for some men is an art. Many seem to come innately. Almost without realizing it, they have that art for seduction and conquer almost without disheveled.
On the contrary, many others try and see it and want it to take the step of approaching a woman and start conquering her. Perhaps, it is not that they do not know how to conquer. Because in the end, how is it done? Is there an infallible trick? All women are different and so are men. Therefore, what one woman may like and be attracted to, another may cause rejection. And for that reason, what can go well for you to flirt will not always be the right thing with everyone.
Instructions to conquer a woman
- Knowing how to flirt for many men seems to be innate. They practically carry the conquest as an art. But don’t be fooled, not everyone is equally good at it.
- You have to know and assume that surely at some point in your life, when it comes to flirting, some woman will give you pumpkins. Because this is how it is… you have to accept it. But you must never give up. That is to say, there are many shy and introverted men and a rejection can make him withdraw more into himself and not want to try to conquer another woman again.
- Forget being embarrassed. What may not have worked for you with one woman is not significant for another if it makes her laugh. Therefore, self-confidence is very important.
- Being somewhat shy is not a problem, it is part of the character of the person. But do not close in on yourselves. Appear confident and even if you are nervous, think that it is always part of the flirt. That feeling of nervousness, the famous butterflies in the stomach, not knowing what to say, wanting to look perfect, sweating your hands a little, palpitations, etc. To many and of course, to many, that happens to them! But it is part of the conquest.
- At the time of the conquest you have to make sure and keep in mind that you want to conquer her. That is, do not try to carry out what you think is typical. She is just her. So look at who she is and don’t try to be someone you’re not. Although you may not realize it, if the thing works, after hours or days, you will realize it and surely, the thing will end badly.
- Also, consider the location. It is not the same as being in a disco, a gym, in a park, at work, with friends, etc.
- Something that never fails wherever you are: eye contact.
- Make your conquest laugh. Nothing pleases a woman (and anyone) more than someone with a spark. Make you funny, have fun conversations, make you laugh… whatever comes to mind. You don’t have to try to make a joke marathon (which surely won’t work) because you don’t know what humor he likes, nor do you know if he will like jokes. Be careful, because they are a double-edged sword.
- Be a good conversationalist. That is infallible. There is nothing worse and watch out, we are not only saying it for her but also for you, than downtime. Those minutes that seem like endless hours where there is no talking and only the music of the little birds is missing… if that happens, something is wrong. Talk about whatever, but also do it consistently. Ask her about things in her life, she talks about yours (but don’t overwhelm her by making her a third degree or tell her your life). Talking about any topic everyone likes. Not only that what one dominates. Whether it’s the weather, sports, shows, movies, music, etc. Remember that little likes and much tires.
- Do not forget to smile. Laughter and being spontaneous is fine, but the power of a smile is infallible. Smiling can imply more things than it seems. From nervousness, through a like, the thing works… so you don’t look like a wacko or think you’re a clown or you’re going too far, look at their reactions. If you don’t see her smile, turn her head or evade a bit, stop. He changes tactics because he doesn’t like her.
- Respect their space. There is nothing worse than a person who is seen to be a real limpet. It’s all very well wanting to conquer, spending time with the woman you like, but over invading her space is the most unbearable thing that can happen. Therefore, if she feels intimidated or invaded, she will give you pumpkins and walk away. Let the air run, as they say. Be attentive to the small details that will betray her. If she wants more and wants to be closer to her, don’t worry, she’ll get closer. If not, don’t look like you only drink the winds for her. A little interest is all very well, but everyone has a life.
- Do not forget that not one day does not have to mean the final defeat. If one day he doesn’t want to or can’t stay, don’t insist. You will stay another day, at another time and/or in another place. Each of you are individual beings and, therefore, being together is very good but you also have separate lives: friends, family, colleagues, etc.
- Do not forget to be as they say so much now, assertive. Have a certain daring, but always with education. Give one of lime and one of sand. Let her also participate in that beautiful game of seduction. Do not do everything yourself, it is a matter of two. Be aware of the signs that are so important at first. Because you can confuse being difficult, distrustful or very shy with simply not wanting to know anything about you.
- Show her and make her see that you like her. But don’t put it on a platter. Let her earn it a bit. For women, as a general rule, there is nothing that is more attractive than a man who is a little tough. Show interest, but don’t lose the game and seduce each other. Being interested is fine, but don’t look like a yuppie world full of pink unicorns either. In other words, let her fight too.
What do you need to conquer a woman?
- A woman you want to conquer.
- Have confidence in yourself.
- Let the situation flow. Have a good sense of humor, be nice, have charisma….
- Be sure to make eye contact with the woman.
Tips to conquer a woman
It’s important when you’re picking up a girl and trying to win her over, not to lose sight of the real world. First of all, what you have to be is to be sincere. With the other person and also with yourself. Try not to be who you are not. Do not cheat and do not behave like someone you are not, just for the fact of appearing in the eyes of the girl, what she likes. If she really likes you, like she likes you, she will have to accept you as you are. Not how you try to be. In the end, if you end up together, the lies will come to light and so much conquest will have been useless.
